FOSSBros and Techbros are awful and need to shut up and listen to their users rather than making decisions for themselves because then their users suffer.
There's no good reason to remain 'pure' to open source values etc if your users suffer.
If you can't do something, that's fine it's not bad to admit you can't do it, but if others are willing to do the work for you, willingly accept it, don't just tell them no because you don't want it like some baby throwing their toys out the crib.
Anyone in particular you're complaining about?